ANAL SEX QUESTION?
Sun, Dec 4, 2011
Query by pimpknuckles2:
Anal sex query?
I’ve tried it once with just a toy, but i can’t figure out why it hurts after going so far in. and it really is not even all the way in! is that regular? it was not really even half way in and it injured a little bit. I have got no clue why? can any person tell me how to make the pain go away? is there a thing i’m performing wrong. I believed it would be pleasurable. It was for a while till it hit that spot.
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Solution by Michael B
i have a certain fire way to make it stop hurting, quit sticking items in your ass you wierdo
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use a lubricant…. always always!!
It takes a while to get used to.
maybe coz ur poking toys at ur crap..
well hun..it will hurt at first..no matter what..your hole aint that big..it hurt me the first two times but i didnt do it with a toy..after you do it for a couple times then it will be pleasurable but if it keeps hurting i would stop
I have never done it and probably never will because I think its gross. But its probably because that anal is so small and it hurts more. Just like it hurt sometimes when you poop. hahaha
maybe use your fingers first and loosen it up a bit… good luck with this one
It always hurts the first time. It shouldn’t hurt everytime though. You have to get used to the feeling. Maybe the toy is irratating. Try some type of lube….perhaps that’ll help.
Lubricant!!
Cause its an exit not an entry!
buy a K-Y jelly its water based. for an easy insertion.
The best thing to do is to get some local anesthetic on it – buy some from a sex shop – and then go really hard at it. No pain, no gain!
< <---- let the anal sex gay guy pro answer this!! lmao!! well for one it is like a period you know when you can do it and when you cant!! and when you say toy do you mean a sex toy? or a toy like uumm as in a Barbie doll? no man all jokes aside! i hope it is a small toy start out with something small! finger or maybe 2 at the heat of the moment! never something that is to big and could destroy you back there! you as well as me have seen some sick things online! and i have seen or known guys to have to use diapers after tearing up there backside man! anal play and sex is a good thing if you do it the right or a good way!! don't let that scare you man! allot of guys gay and str-8 love anal play or sex! me and my boyfriend of almost 10 years we use some lube called that is the best thing ever! it will give you good lubrication and amount of numbness to that area.. don’t use this baby oil gel on your girl man..don’t use it in her vagina!! i mean use it for her in the anal area thats cool just don’t dare pull out the back and use it in the front man that could be or cause a girl major problems!! and don’t use anything that will numb it allot or all the way man it will kill the whole point in doing it! and also if you numb it with anal ease and things of that nature that will numb it enough that it could make you rip or tear something without knowing it man!! < <-- that wouldn't be good for a pimp lol! but get you some baby oil in a form only! you get it in your baby department of the store or where they have makeup and things and the cheap kind or generic brands are just as good it takes very very little of it! and nobody at the store knows what your using it for either!! but the pain you had that you hit was your prostate dude it is a guys g spot all guys have them when you hit it it felt like someone had stabbed you in the lower belly and you yanked that toy out like you had been stabbed lmao! the yank is what made it hurt more of you removing or yanking the toy back lol! but i know this if you hit it for the first time man you will do that you gotta take it slow and use the toy slowly get use to it more and more man! ease it in even me as a gay guy cant just grab a toy and start out ramming it in me like most guys think gay guys can use anything that is a myth lol! don’t believe it lol you put a toy in me fast let alone all the way in i would knock you the h-e-l-l out fast!! and i don’t care what kind of pimp you are lmao! but all in all add me on yahoo dude if you need more we will talk about it on im! add me only if you need some more pointers! xjason17x@yahoo.com
i’ve never had anal sex and not gonna plan on it but i have friends who do, and believe me they say it’ hurts the first time, you shouldnt go all the way at first, take it step by step and go easy, use lubricant or some sort of lubricant substance, And relax dont put pressure on you Butt. muscles
well first off anal sex isn’t “normal” so u can’t ask that
it’s not ment to go up there so that’s prolly why it hurts
A lot of people experience pain with anal penetration. The pain is actually normal, because your anus was not meant to be penetrated from the outside. Some people don’t experience pain, and some have to kind of train themselves to like it. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. Don’t force this on yourself. The tissue there is very delicate and can be injured easily, causing serious infections. Just give it up, dude. The buttsecks just isn’t in the cards for everybody.
dont shove things up your @$ $ , genius.
Make sure that you have a lot of lubricant, also, don’t try too big too fast.. Good luck.
i have never done it but i want to try sounds like lube is good
You need to stretch it a bit prior to sticking a dildo or vibrator up there! Start w/ one finger, then two and finally three! Then try your toy……….Also use lots of lube!
take it slow
use lub
be patient
Use LOTS of water-based lubricant.