DO YOU THINK THIS GUY IS BI OR STRAIGHT?
Fri, Jan 13, 2012
Query by Delha:
Do you feel this guy is bi or straight?
I’ve been dating this guy not long ago, and I cannot inform if he is bi or not. What is your private opinion? Also, I cannot date a guy with bisexual tendencies, I just won’t.
- He wears thongs largely (one particular in neon pink)
- He has lots of anal sex toys
- He shaves most of his physique hair
- He has a handful of girls’ flip flops (but otherwise, he wears males’ shoes and clothes)
- He has no male pals, just female close friends
- Recently, I found tranny porn on his computer
…… other than the over, he acts like a common “straight” guy.
Please be sincere and mature with answers!
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Solution by greenman345
bi most likely
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He sounds gay to me.
Gay as a three dollar bill.
sounds more like a transfestite, but other than that i would ask him about it, theres nothing better than being honest in a relationship.
I’m guessing gay
You are a 47 year old fat white guy. You are naked except for your ex-wifes stockings.
Geezzz..a blind person can tell he’s GAY a mile away!!
Def. not straight.
gay gay gay
Ummm, the anal sex toys wpuld have been the biggest hint! No woman in their right mind would use those!
he sounds gay but idk…could still be straight
Most likely. I mean how many guys wear girl’s shoes and have NO male friends. Think about that. Also next time listen to how is voice is and how he recats around you!
Wow. If you haven’t come to a conclusion on this one, you need to work on your deductive reasoning skills.
I think you already know the answer – He is as queer as a football bat!
He is neither bi nor straight… he’s GAY.. sorry
gay, and i wouldn’t date a bi guy either!
lol , either hes gay and so far in the closet hes dating women to hide it , hes definitly bi . like no straight guy has anal toys wears thongs and has only girl friends how you need advice on this is beyond me but you should ask him if he likes men but to be honest he sounds bisexual like tranny porn? like come on = why would you wanna date a guy who watches tranny porn
ummm id be afraid he maybe gay lol i mean i got nothing against you being with a bisexual person but i mean trannys omg id say dump him he is wanting a man not you sorry…. uhhhhh i mean it looks like that to me anyways just trying to help
thanks
~Cherokee74
He might just be GAY. I don’t want to make you feel bad but he might just be dating you because he doesn’t want to come OUT.
hun: he is more then just bi he is gay
GAY!…GAY!…GAY!…GAY!…ARGH MY EYES!…
He sounds like a trisexual: he’ll try anything sexual.
take a long, hard look at what u just wrote. think! is he bi? YES!-dr.phil
i think he definitely is either bisexual or gay. there are guys out there who seem bi because they are overly metro but this guy seems over the top. if you don’t feel comfortable with him and his possible change in sexuality then you should probably break it off, but do it gently.
Seriously pink thongs & anal sex toys?
wow….
I would say he’s gay but there are guys out there who are just odd. . . Why don’t you talk to him about his odd habits. . .Ask him why he wears pink thongs and plays with anal sex toys. . .There might be a reasonable explanation?
Metrosexual.
“He has lots of anal sex toys”
what straight guy have anal sex toys?
Umm pink thong? GAY
i think gay or bi…the toys and thongs say it all. you should have a serious talk with him!
Yeah, he’s gay. And how can you not tell?
Thongs – no real big deal
Sex toys…well that could possibly indicate that he could be bi
shaving most of his body hair indicates that he’s just a little vain and self-conscious about it
Girls shoes…hmmm…maybe he just likes them
many men have mostly female friends
trnny porn could just be a laugh
maybe he’s just experimenting…don’t be too judgmental about it. embrace the difference you have…and if it worries you that much it may help to talk with him on his own about it…
hmm…. what does your instincts tell you?
Nah…only gay…there is a certain type of gay guy that only has female friends. Pink is the common gay symbol, because it comes from a bright pink flamingo. Anal only is most surely a sign. If he shaves his body hair then he is subconscious about his appearance.
Look – society hates openly-gay people. Thus, for social reasons, he’s hiding it. He may have learned the straight guy role, as most gay men have to hide it, and he may have sex with you, but it’s still all for show.
Also, does he refer to himself as a “bear.” Does he have some uncanny obsession over bears or has pictures of or has stuffed Carebears running around? Gay men often refer to themselves as “bears” . The most common symbol is a purple bear. Carebears are appropriate when referring to a “bear.” Does he have a MySpace account with bear paw prints?
Yet, people may say you shouldn’t judge based on a few kinky traits, but I think he has a little TOO MANY traits. He could also not know he’s gay yet…
LMFAO
I definitly think he’s Bisexual because why would he have anal sex toys? That’s one reason. Well thongs, that’s a but harder straight people could still wear that I guess, shaving most of your body hair, again there are guys who do that, a few girls flip flops? That would mean walking in a womans store or womans section meaning that that’s not the only thing in womans he buys (thongs, even sexy toys, maybe makeup?), he has alot of female friends, that’s a big one also! Unless he flirts with most then it should be ok, but since your dating him thats a problem, he may get a stronger feminen touch towards his clothes, and even sexual orientation. It’s wierd because NO MALE FRIENDS? He needs at least 1 male friend, or else somethings wrong! HERE’S THE BIG ONE: You found tranny porn???? wow that’s a huge one!
I honestly think he’s bisexual or gay. Try and list the more “manly” stuff he does maybe things change. I hope I helped!
Bi, probably.
all those things and your still curious.
the first one kinda hit me, but maybe some guys just like banana hammocks.
but come on “he has lots of anal sex toys”
unless hes using them on you then don’t worry about it
if he’s a swimmer or a cyclist i’ll understand the shaving thing, and maybe he thinks that girls flip flops are more comfortable.
and let’s face it what man doesn’t want to be friends with alot of girls
and lastly he might just have a tranny fetish. or he’s bi.
why don’t you just ask